Woman, 62, found out her husband drained nest egg and took on $126K debt. Rachel Cruze offers ‘rare’ solution

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Woman, 62, found out her husband drained nest egg and took on $126K debt. Rachel Cruze offers ‘rare’ solution

This 62-year-old Tennessee woman was shocked to find out her husband drained their retirement nest egg behind her back — and left them $126K in debt. Here’s Rachel Cruze’s ‘rare’ solution

Beth from Nashville, Tennessee thought she was all set for retirement soon. But her sense of financial security was shattered when her husband informed her that their retirement savings were depleted and the family had $126,000 in consumer debt looming over them.

“He’s had three huge job losses, they were all well-paying jobs,” she explained to Rachel Cruze and ***** Warshaw on a recent episode of “The Ramsey Show.” “He did invest in a 401(k). I’ve never been sure about how much was in there, I think it might have been maybe $170,000. It’s gone!”

Beth let her husband be solely responsible for their finances all these years and admitted that she was afraid of probing him about their financial situation because “he would get terribly angry.”

Her unfortunate circumstance is a brutal portrayal of how damaging financial infidelity can be.

Despite being married for over 30 years, Beth says she was left in the dark about the family’s finances. Her husband, she says, experienced extended periods of unemployment because he refused to get any job below upper-management level. He recently revealed that he had been spending money from their retirement accounts during these stretches.

He also managed to accumulate $126,000 in debt, including $77,000 in credit cards and $50,000 in a HELOC co-signed with his sister. “Now that’s all gone too,” Beth sighed. “Honestly, he was not a very good money manager.”

Mismanaging money and concealing financial details from partners is unfortunately common. A whopping 40% of U.S. adults in committed relationships have committed financial infidelity, according to a

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. Forty-five percent say this form of deception is as bad as, if not worse than, physical infidelity.

Beth’s husband hasn’t just damaged their relationship through his deception, he’s also left them both vulnerable as they approach retirement. One in five American seniors ages 50+ have no retirement savings,

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. Over a quarter (26%) of people who are not yet retired say they expect to never retire.

Without a safety net, many seniors have been compelled to delay retirement or cancel it altogether. Beth says she is now working part-time and has convinced her husband to take a job as a car salesman.

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However, Cruze says she needs to do more to protect her financial future.

After decades of lies and deception, Cruze believes it’s necessary for Beth to create a financial firewall and manage her own finances independently. “I would have my own money,” she tells her. “Get your own checking account. We rarely say this, we’re the show that’s the opposite, but in a situation like this …”

Twenty-seven percent of U.S. adults in committed relationships have completely separate finances, according to the Bankrate survey. Separate accounts can give couples a sense of autonomy and privacy, but in Beth’s case it could also offer protection. With a separate checking and investment account, she could accumulate modest savings for her eventual retirement.

Meanwhile, an open conversation with her husband could help them create a plan to curb their combined debt burden and secure their financial future together.

This article provides information only and should not be construed as advice. It is provided without warranty of any kind.

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