Diamond Member Pelican Press 0 Posted November 11 Diamond Member Share Posted November 11 This is the hidden content, please Sign In or Sign Up Coedely ****** victim’s sister describes driving as ‘too daunting’ BBC Erin Griffiths – with her brother Callum – who she calls her “biggest protector” The sister of a teenager who ***** in a car ****** is scared to learn to drive because of what happened. Callum Griffiths, 19, from Porth This is the hidden content, please Sign In or Sign Up , Rhondda Cynon Taf, last December, alongside friends, Morgan Smith, 18 and Jesse Owen, 18. Erin Griffiths, 16, can get her provisional licence next year but said she already has anxiety and is planning to put off lessons. “Since Callum, it is a lot more daunting to think about my friends in a car or me in a car. It’s really scary. You never know what can happen to you,” she said. Callum’s family said their hearts were “broken beyond repair” Callum’s smiling face on the wall is the first thing you see when you walk into the living room of his family home. As the anniversary of his ****** approaches, this is clearly a family still trying to work out how to live their lives without him. “It just gets *******,” says mum Natalie. “Because the reality of having to get up every day and live without Callum has really set in. “How do we get up every day knowing our son isn’t here?” The night of the ****** is still vivid in Natalie’s mind. There are memories of the family driving the 15-minute journey to the scene, after receiving a phone call from a friend who lived nearby. “She told me the car was in half and I just remember praying, all the way to Coedely,” she said. “Just praying ‘let Callum be OK – just let him be OK’.” Although they were told at the scene Callum had *****, Natalie said she did not take it in until later. “Our world just crumbled,” she said. “I do feel when we lost Callum we lost a part of ourselves – I am not the person I used to be, my husband is not the same person. “There is a huge void that will never, ever be filled.” Flowers and balloons were left in memory of the three teenagers in December 2023 Last month, an This is the hidden content, please Sign In or Sign Up found that the car lost control and hit a bus after travelling at around 50mph (80km/h) into a bend. The family have not yet decided how they will mark the anniversary, but held a party for Callum, who would have turned 20 on 2 November. Natalie Griffiths Callum’s family held a party on what would have been his 20th birthday, raising money for the charity 2wish Cymru which has helped them during the past year Siblings Erin and Callum were very close, with Erin calling him her “best friend and biggest protector”. The 16-year-old, just 15 when her brother *****, said the party has been an important focus and, she admits, a distraction. “Instead of thinking that Callum is not here for his birthday, we have this big celebration,” she said. Natalie Griffiths Erin and her brother Callum were very close Another focus for Natalie has been as a member of a group of grieving families, called This is the hidden content, please Sign In or Sign Up . They are campaigning for changes to the law on new drivers. A graduated driver’s licence could see a limit on the number of passengers young people are allowed to carry, which is a “no brainer”, Natalie believes. But last month, the *** government appeared to rule this out, saying it was not considering any changes. That is despite a This is the hidden content, please Sign In or Sign Up whose son ***** in Wales, reaching around 25,000 signatures. “It’s very frustrating,” said Natalie. “And more so knowing I have got a child who is coming up to driving age, who is now put off from wanting to learn to drive because she is so aware of the dangers.” Natalie Griffiths says a change in the law for young drivers would be Callum’s ‘greatest legacy.’ Erin said her friends support the proposed changes and she hopes the tragic circumstances of her brother’s ****** will make people drive more cautiously. “We never expected this to happen to Callum, you never know who it is going to happen to – it is always playing on my mind,” she said. To those who say any changes could impinge the freedoms of young people, Natalie has a simple and direct answer. She said: “The biggest limit of all has been placed on Callum because he has no life to live any longer. “The greatest legacy we can leave for Callum is to try and make some change. “ This is the hidden content, please Sign In or Sign Up #Coedely #****** #victims #sister #describes #driving #daunting This is the hidden content, please Sign In or Sign Up This is the hidden content, please Sign In or Sign Up Link to comment https://hopzone.eu/forums/topic/165895-coedely-crash-victim%E2%80%99s-sister-describes-driving-as-%E2%80%98too-daunting%E2%80%99/ Share on other sites More sharing options...
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