From cauldrons to cardigans—the lurking prejudices behind the name ‘Granny’

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From cauldrons to cardigans—the lurking prejudices behind the name ‘Granny’

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“Honestly, I can’t wait to have grandkids and spoil them—but I don’t want to be called “Granny.'” (overheard on the No. 96 tram in Melbourne)

“I love it. It’s not the word that needs to change, it’s our culture.” (Deborah, proud granny)

What’s wrong with ‘granny?’

From its debut in the early 1600s, “granny” has been more than an affectionate term for grandma—and a cursory glance at its history tells a depressingly familiar story.

First, the instability and decline of words associated with women. “Granny” joins a long list of words, particularly for older women, that that have acquired negative meanings—spinsters were originally spinners; ****** were untidy people; slags and shrews were rogues; scolds were poets; bimbos were men, and so on. Many started life referring to men, but quickly narrowed to female application—and with this ******* specification came further decline.

Right from the start, grannies were also people engaged in trivial (often self-serving) chatter; in other words, grannies were gossips, tell-tales and nosy parkers. In the 1700s, more negative meanings piled on—grannies became fussy, indecisive or unenterprising persons, and in many places ******* as well.

The online crowdsourced Urban Dictionary now has a flourishing of additional disparaging senses for “granny” that have yet to make it into more mainstream collections.

In sport, grannies refer to those who perform poorly, or they’re a kind of ***** leg injury (which leaves you “

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like an old granny for the rest of the day”).

‘Don’t be a granny!’

Tellingly, the negative uses of granny have never been restricted to women—one

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defines “granny” as “a simpleton: used of both sexes.” It’s another telling asymmetry in our lexicon. Terms for women are insulting when used of men (“Dad, don’t be such a granny”), but terms designating men when used of women have little or no affront. If you were to call a women a grampa or an old man, there’s really no ******—it just seems odd.

Unflattering “granny” compounds are plentiful in English: a “granny knot” is one that’s inexpertly tied, while “granny gear” is an extremely low first gear. New ones are arriving all the time: “granny weed” is low-quality ********** that is old or dried out; “granny shot” is said of a basketballer with little skill; “granny mode” in video games is a slower speed than normal, “granny pants” (like other “granny-like” items) are naff “old lady” styles (in the fashion world, the phrase ‘not your granny’s’ describes edgy or trendy clothes—not fashion choices made or worn by grandmothers). The Oxford English Dictionary gives 29 “granny” compounds, but provides not a single compound with “grandpa,” “grampa” or “gramps.”

These terms for one’s grandfather have also been remarkably stable over time. This dictionary gives a single definition: “One’s grandfather. Also used as a familiar form of address to one’s grandfather or to an elderly man.” Even the Urban Dictionary, not known for its politeness, has little in the way of slangy senses for “grandpa” or “gramps”—the closest are playful entries referring to older men or grandfathers. You might compare “codger” or “*******”—sure, they’re not exactly flattering, but they don’t pack anywhere near the same punch as do “crone,” “hag,” “battle-axe,” “old bat,” “old bag” and so on.

Granny goodness and greedy granny

Current films, comics and games reveal another way words for women evolve. To set the scene, consider the fate of “witch,” now a slur for older women. Originally, witches could be male sorcerers, but when the word was used to describe women it became something very ******—witches were females who had dealings with the ******. Our jokey image of witches these days can’t capture the potency of this word in early times, but it has never completely shed its connotations of evil. We still retain abusive epithets like “(old) witch” and also expressions like “witches’ cauldron” to describe sinister situations. And now here’s granny in the very same cauldron.

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is one of the most well-known evil grannies in entertainment. Known for her cruelty and manipulation, this super villain hides under a façade of grandmotherly affection.

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is a survival video game where the main antagonist, Granny, is a hideously sadistic serial ******* who locks people in her house and taunts them for days before brutally ******** them.

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, a ****, decrepit old woman whose vulnerable and destitute appearance conceals a very dark nature underneath. Of course, there are sometimes dark older male figures too, but they’re not explicitly grandfathers (for example, Emperor Palpatine in Star Wars or Dr. Wily, an older, **** scientist who creates robotic menaces to achieve world domination). And they’re not in the same league as those decrepit, old, malicious women—the “witches” of pop culture.

And now there’s the

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toy for the little ones. The aim is to steal from this grasping grandma and get away with it.

Words make worlds

Words are declarations of social attitudes and belief systems. Through the way we speak, the words we use and our interactions, the language reveals and reinforces psychological and social roles—status, power dynamics and relationships. Here is some context for grannies:

Don a granny cardy

Negative senses of expressions have a saliency that will dominate and eventually expel other senses. This transformation has a name:

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(“bad meanings drive out good”).

So what can be done to help drag “granny” out of this semantic abyss?

Many older women are giving themselves the term and doing this playfully or as a way to reclaim power (for example, the

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). Reframing expressions in this way may not neutralize them, but it can make us more aware of the lurking prejudices.

And why not slip into a cardigan? September 22 marks the world’s first

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. Australians around the country will don cardigans in a call to combat the inequalities older women face—and to show they’ve got older women’s backs (and shoulders) covered.

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